everyone use to live in the same house , well
my grandmas house. Every morning my mom and
grandma would talk in the dinning area and say
how they felt. People didn't like it at all.
Well people had a name for that "Talking Hens".
Little did I know is that in my life I would be
both roles. The hen and the person the hens
were talking about. People are always saying
don't talk about others "behind" their back, If
you have a problem communicate. It's hard to
not be hypocritical of others or even
yourselves. Well today my mom gave me one small
piece of advice that didn't really mean much to
me at the time but now it does. She said, "you
never know what someone is saying behind your
back!" and when you hear someone speak behind
your back that's when you learn the hard lesson
of not being so trusting and become more
forgiving because at one time you, yourself did
the same exact thing. People think it's not
talking to someone behind their back because
they are venting to another friend and they
just mean it for them to hear, which is fine
but that opinion you are giving is sending a
false impression about who that person is as a
whole.
