venting time

Okay so when I was even younger than I am now 

everyone use to live in the same house , well 

my grandmas house. Every morning my mom and 

grandma would talk in the dinning area and say 

how they felt. People didn't like it at all. 

Well people had a name for that "Talking Hens". 

Little did I know is that in my life I would be 

both roles. The hen and the person the hens 

were talking about. People are always saying 

don't talk about others "behind" their back, If 

you have a problem communicate. It's hard to 

not be hypocritical of others or even 

yourselves. Well today my mom gave me one small 

piece of advice that didn't really mean much to 

me at the time but now it does. She said, "you 

never know what someone is saying behind your 

back!" and when you hear someone speak behind 

your back that's when you learn the hard lesson 

of not being so trusting and become more 

forgiving because at one time you, yourself did 

the same exact thing. People think it's not 

talking to someone behind their back because 

they are venting to another friend and they 

just mean it for them to hear, which is fine 

but that opinion you are giving is sending a 

false impression about who that person is as a 

whole.